Mad love

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It’s not boxes of gooey candy, or bouquets of fragrant roses. It’s not decadent, chocolate dipped berries, or silky red lingerie, nor drug store cards declaring your everlasting love.

It’s calling from a business trip to tell me ‘good morning’ even when you’re two hours earlier. It’s cleaning out the cat’s litter box because you know how much I hate that chore. It’s pushing me out the door on the weekends so I can have some ‘me time’ without guilt.

It’s that comfortable silence between us that says so much, and inside jokes that still make me smile. The text messages that make me blush and the looks that make me swoon.

It’s making me laugh until I can’t breathe, and loving me hard enough that it takes my breath.

It’s the little things that tell me I am loved every day, and not just one day out of the year.

When love is not madness, it is not love.” ~ Pedro Calderon de la Barca

Submitted to WordPress Daily Prompt. The theme was to “write an ode to someone or something you love”

*Photo venue: bridge graffiti near Ebro, FL

Christmas past memories

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Years ago, I made my children an Advent calendar. Finding the right trinkets to fill each pocket took three months. We don’t put the calendar out anymore. Christmas, apparently, is for little kids.

The Trifextra challenge for this weekend: 33 words on “your feelings about the holidays”

A light for all the world

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Her beatific countenance shone down upon us, bathing all in her love and warmth. Arms spread, her acceptance offered with no conditions. Her smile as open and inviting as a mother’s embrace.

A hymn of celebration filled the air, her exultant voice melding with the seraphim and cherubim. One song for the innocent and pure, for the lost and sick, for the faithful and the searching.

A celestial choir raising a joyful noise to the heavens, an orchestra of ethereal instruments accompanying their concert of rejoicing.

A child is born this night, a light for all the world to behold.

The 100 Word Challenge theme this week is ‘Countenance

Modernizing

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“It’s the 21st century, you have to change with the times.” Dressed in his pinstriped suit, he was the epitome of “corporate.”

“Like I always say, ‘if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it’.” I looked down at him over my glasses.

“You’re right, it’s not broke, but it’s not efficient.” Holding his newfangled electronic notepad, he flipped through spreadsheets and flight schedules. “If you upgrade like I suggest, you’d be done in half the time.”

“I’m not fooling with tradition.” I held up a gloved hand, hoping to end the discussion.

“No one uses reindeer and a sleigh anymore.”

Whatever…”

Submitted to Velvet Verbosity and her 100 Word Challenge . This week’s theme is ‘Whatever.’

 

Strawberry Pretzel Salad

Mel and Michele have joined forces to host, as they put it, a “… brand-spanking-new, semi-monthly link-up.” For the first prompt of December, they’ve asked for our favorite holiday recipes. Since I made this goodie over Thanksgiving, per my kids’ requests, it seemed the perfect fit.

Okay, this really isn’t a salad, and sure with all that butter and sugar, it’s also probably not all that ‘good’ for you ~ like salads should be. Yet… still… it tastes so good.

The sweet and salty combination is wonderful, and a very attractive dish. It’s sure to be a hit with your family or at any potluck dinner.

I first had this salad at an annual fundraiser luncheon hosted by a women’s group at a neighborhood church. Each spring the women would present at least a dozen different salads. The luncheon was a much-anticipated, and well attended function. The women were also generous enough to share some of their recipes, this one included.

This is definitely a make-ahead dish. What with having to pre-bake the crust, and then letting the cream cheese and strawberry layers set separately before serving ~ you need to start early in the morning if you want to serve it with dinner that night, or just make it the day before.

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Strawberry Pretzel Salad

2 Tablespoons sugar
1½ sticks butter, melted
2 cups crushed pretzels
1 cup sugar
8 ounces cream cheese, softened
8 ounces Cool Whip, thawed
6 ounce box strawberry gelatin (or two, 3 ounces boxes)
2 cups boiling water
20 ounces strawberries, sliced (may use 10 ounce pkg frozen berries)

Pretzel layer:
Combine 2 Tablespoons sugar, melted butter and crushed pretzels, mixing well. Press into the bottom of a buttered 9×13 pan. Bake at 375°F (191°C) for 10 minutes. Let cool 1 hour.

Cream cheese layer:
Beat 1 cup sugar and cream cheese until smooth. Fold in Cool Whip. Spread evenly over cooled pretzel layer. Refrigerate at least 2 hours, or until set.

Strawberry layer:
Mix gelatin into boiling water, stirring until dissolved. Fold in sliced strawberries. Let cool and spoon evenly over cream cheese layer. Refrigerate overnight or until set.

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Hints:
• Recycle… don’t immediately throw away the wax paper covering the butter. Use the butter-coated side to rubbed down the inside of the baking pan.
• A heavy-duty ziplock bag and a meat tenderizing mallet makes for fun pretzel smashing, and is an amusing stress reliever.
• To save a little more prep time, after washing and capping, use a mushroom slicer  to cut up the strawberries.
• If you insist on being healthy, or at least healthier, you can substitute sugar-free,  fat-free, or reduced fat  ingredients for any of the ‘full-on, bad for you’ ingredients.

Prompt #7: Share a favorite holiday recipe

Prompt #7: Share a favorite holiday recipe

*From the Vault of IMSO; originally published Jan. 25, 2010. Edited and updated.

Thanksgiving

My daughter is home for Thanksgiving.

She called me around 4:30 Friday morning to let me know she was on the road, and continued with periodic updates along her route. We had our first family dinner at home since March – the last time she was here, visiting during her Spring Break from school.

It’s weird having a child old enough that she “visits”  instead of moves back in between school breaks.

Her 13-hour, marathon road trip meant that I still went out on my Saturday photo hike, because I knew she would sleep late.

I stayed close and made the short drive to the Gulf again, hanging out at Henderson Beach State Park and Crystal Beach, both near Destin, FL., thankful that I have such a beautiful place to visit anytime I want.

(Photos shot with a Nikon D60, using an 18-55mm, 55-200mm, 20mm f/2.8 wide-angle, 50mm f/1.8 prime lens, Nikon CoolPix S205 and/or iPhone4)

For more photos, please visit my Flickr photostream.

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Submitted to Unknown Mami’s Sundays in My City